tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7702571990195140725.post504152367526673895..comments2023-04-07T01:39:20.427-07:00Comments on Trying to save her life: YesterdayUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7702571990195140725.post-77384515063969989922009-12-21T08:14:09.859-08:002009-12-21T08:14:09.859-08:00I love someone who recovered from an intense eatin...I love someone who recovered from an intense eating disorder which she had battled for almost 20 years. Remind her that she is a good person, and help her substitute positive healthy things for the negative, self-deprecating ones. <br /><br />In the end, none of this is about food or weight. It is about control in a life that is otherwise out of control or under someone else's control. Food is something that can be controlled. Show her that she can take control of her life and live it unbound.<br /><br />There is a light at the end of the journey, and it is so freeing. I will pray for both of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7702571990195140725.post-66100853346890654892009-12-15T19:35:34.790-08:002009-12-15T19:35:34.790-08:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7702571990195140725.post-69076398439450499832009-11-22T18:04:53.887-08:002009-11-22T18:04:53.887-08:00i am borderline anorexic (let me clarify - i am an...i am borderline anorexic (let me clarify - i am anorexic but scared of confrontation so i've gained 4.5 lbs just to make everyone else happy). this is such a beautiful idea... my boyfriend doesn't know how to handle these types of situations, and even my friends judge me. i wish i could be as open with him as kat is with you. please keep blogging! (and add me on xanga if you have one) <br />xxxxaimeehttp://sammyana.xanga.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7702571990195140725.post-56399165825233617252009-11-18T13:40:27.600-08:002009-11-18T13:40:27.600-08:00my girlfriend told me that if she ever found out i...my girlfriend told me that if she ever found out i had an eating disorder she would break up with me and make sure i got into rehab. i wish i could tell her what's going on with me because i hate lying to her, but it's better lying than losing her. i wish she was a little more like you, in that she would be trying to help me more than punishing me for the things i've sunken into. keep writing.<br /><br />xoNikkioxNikkiThinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07237420241501371402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7702571990195140725.post-14826204889169671732009-11-09T19:12:45.222-08:002009-11-09T19:12:45.222-08:00everytime*everytime**strawberry//shortcake*https://www.blogger.com/profile/12576693116178062684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7702571990195140725.post-16697134672837627742009-11-09T19:11:54.851-08:002009-11-09T19:11:54.851-08:00i think you are exactly what she needs right now. ...i think you are exactly what she needs right now. honestly, i think her having someone like you may help her recover, very very slowly, but i believe she will recover. You should make a deal with her. If she eats a decent meal, you and her could go work out together, and do couple sit ups. u face eachother and everything u sit up u kiss. at 10 u hold it and kiss for ten seconds.*strawberry//shortcake*https://www.blogger.com/profile/12576693116178062684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7702571990195140725.post-14309103498300638392009-11-09T18:23:11.178-08:002009-11-09T18:23:11.178-08:00Yesterday was rough :/ I'm sorry I put you thr...Yesterday was rough :/ I'm sorry I put you through that, it was partly my fault. You're wonderful. Keep writing. :)<br /><br />~KatAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7702571990195140725.post-61881764700683674522009-11-09T17:16:44.501-08:002009-11-09T17:16:44.501-08:00It's amazing how strong your being for her, my...It's amazing how strong your being for her, my boyfriend can't handle it, he doesn't even know half of what I do/feel sometimes. <br />I also love reading your blogs, it's interesting to see the other side of things!<br />xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7702571990195140725.post-27227772932756597342009-11-09T17:01:20.935-08:002009-11-09T17:01:20.935-08:00You are a wonderful person. So many people in your...You are a wonderful person. So many people in your position think that placing people in awkward situations to make them eat is the answer, but you know that will never truly get her into true recovery.<br /><br />I hope I can one day meet someone as caring and understanding as you.InvisibleDisorderedOnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07149939980234355226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7702571990195140725.post-8790847969170342492009-11-09T11:11:44.199-08:002009-11-09T11:11:44.199-08:00I am truly touched by the kindness and obvious car...I am truly touched by the kindness and obvious care and love you have for Kat, she really deserves someone like you. It is very interesting to see an eating disorder from the perspective of someone it hurts aside from ourselves, please keep writing!!Charlie Maynoreply@blogger.com